Thank You (December 24, 2025)

Thank you to everyone who reads and supports SIDAssistant.blogspot.com. Your time, engagement, and encouragement truly matter, and I don’t take that lightly.

As we look ahead to 2026, I’ll be leaning even more into professional development–focused content—practical insights, lessons learned, and tools designed to support those working in (or aspiring to work in) athletic communications and college athletics. My goal is simple: content that’s useful, honest, and rooted in real experience.

I’d also love to hear from you.
How can I better support your journey in 2026?
What challenges are you facing, or what topics would be most helpful right now?

Thanks for being part of this space. The best conversations are still ahead.

— Danny

Familiar Roles, Diminishing Returns (December 22, 2025)

Doing what you have always done can be reassuring. Familiar responsibilities offer confidence and efficiency. Over time, however, staying within the same professional boundaries produces diminishing returns.

Roles that once challenged you eventually become routine. When that happens, learning slows, adaptability weakens, and professional value plateaus.

Foundational Comfort is built by deliberately expanding responsibility:

• Volunteering for unfamiliar tasks

• Learning adjacent skills

• Taking ownership beyond your formal title

Growth requires intentional discomfort. Leaders who prepare for future roles do so long before those roles are offered.

Familiarity should be a foundation, not a ceiling.

Reflection: What responsibility could you take on now that aligns with where you want to be—not just where you are?

The Cost of Staying Quiet (December 19, 2025)

Silence can feel like self-preservation.

In complex organizational environments, staying quiet often seems safer than speaking up. You avoid conflict. You avoid scrutiny. You avoid being wrong.

What often goes unacknowledged is the long-term cost of silence.

When leaders and emerging leaders remain quiet:

• Problems persist longer than necessary

• Opportunities pass without ownership

• Credibility slowly erodes

Influence is built through contribution. Thoughtful input—even when imperfect—signals engagement, preparation, and commitment to the organization’s success.

Silence may protect you today, but it limits your leadership footprint tomorrow.

Reflection: What valuable perspective are you withholding because it feels safer to remain quiet?

Perfection Is the Enemy of Progress (December 19, 2025)

Perfectionism is often praised in high-performing environments. Attention to detail matters. Standards matter. But perfection, when left unchecked, becomes a barrier to progress.

In practice, perfectionism often looks like:

• Over-editing instead of publishing

• Endless revisions instead of execution

• Delaying projects because they are “not quite ready”

The issue is not quality. The issue is momentum.

Progress is built through iteration, not flawless execution. The professionals who grow the fastest are not those who get it perfect the first time, but those who are willing to release, learn, and refine.

Leadership credibility is earned through consistency and responsiveness, not invisibility while waiting for ideal conditions.

Perfection promises safety. Progress delivers growth.

Reflection: Where has your pursuit of perfection slowed progress that could have been achieved through iteration?

Why Waiting Feels Responsible (But Isn’t) - December 18, 2025

 “Let’s wait and see.”

Few phrases sound more reasonable in a professional environment. Waiting suggests caution, thoughtfulness, and maturity. Sometimes, it is the right move. Often, however, waiting is simply indecision wearing a responsible disguise.

In athletics communications, waiting commonly shows up as:

• Delaying changes until the offseason

• Holding ideas until approval feels guaranteed

• Avoiding feedback because timing never seems right

The problem is not patience. The problem is passivity.

Leadership requires movement before conditions are perfect. If clarity were a prerequisite for action, very little would ever change. The most effective professionals act with incomplete information, trusting their preparation and adjusting along the way.

Waiting may protect you from short-term discomfort, but it quietly creates long-term stagnation. Teams learn urgency from their leaders. When leaders wait, organizations drift.

Reflection: What decision are you postponing that would benefit from thoughtful action today rather than perfect timing tomorrow?

The Myth of Comfort in Professional Growth (December 17, 2025)

In professional settings—particularly in athletics and sports communications—comfort is often mistaken for stability.

If the routine feels familiar, the expectations predictable, and the feedback minimal, it can feel like things are going well. In reality, comfort frequently signals something else: a plateau.

Growth, by definition, introduces friction. It requires new skills, uncomfortable conversations, and decisions that expose you to criticism or failure. Comfort, on the other hand, minimizes all three. That is why it is so attractive—and so dangerous.

Early in my career, I believed that avoiding disruption was a form of professionalism. The less noise, the better. What I eventually learned is that leaders who prioritize comfort often sacrifice readiness. When change inevitably arrives—as it always does—those leaders are the least prepared to navigate it.

True professional stability is not built on ease. It is built on capacity. Capacity to adapt. Capacity to communicate clearly under pressure. Capacity to lead when outcomes are uncertain.

Comfort feels good in the moment. Growth serves you for the long term.

Reflection: Where in your professional life have you confused comfort with progress?

The Lens Through Which You See Challenges (December 9, 2025)

We tend to judge obstacles by their size. There have been three instances in my journey where I have been away from working in college athletics. Each of those instances afforded me an opportunity to listen, learn, lead and follow.

In these times, a difficult season, a complicated decision, an unexpected problem—these moments felt heavy, and our instinct is often to react based on how big or urgent the challenge appears.

But here’s the truth: challenges are rarely defined by their size. They’re defined by our interpretation.

Two people can stand in front of the exact same situation and experience it completely differently.

One pauses.
One proceeds.

Why?
Because they aren’t looking at the obstacle the same way—they’re looking through different lenses.

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🔎 Fear’s Lens: Threat and Limitation

Fear has a way of distorting reality.
It magnifies consequences, exaggerates weaknesses, and amplifies uncertainty.

Through fear, we see:

• A threat instead of an opportunity

• A setback instead of a lesson

• A risk instead of a potential reward

Fear doesn’t need proof—it just needs your attention.

It whispers:

“What if this goes wrong? What if you embarrass yourself? What if you fail?”

And slowly, it convinces you that safety is wiser than growth.

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🔎 Faith’s Lens: Possibility and Purpose

Faith doesn’t ignore difficulty.
It simply refuses to let difficulty define the outcome.

Through faith, we see:

• Possibility in uncertainty

• Growth in resistance

• Strength in movement

• Purpose in challenge

Faith whispers:

“Even if this is hard, I’ll learn. Even if it doesn’t go perfectly, I can grow. Even if I feel unprepared, I can start.”

Faith doesn’t eliminate fear—it overrides it with belief.

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💡 Your Story Shapes Your Response

Challenges don’t determine your direction.
The story you tell yourself about them does.

You can say:

“This is too hard”
or
“This is teaching me something valuable.”

You can say:

“I’m stuck”
or
“I’m being strengthened.”

Same obstacle.
Different story.
Different leadership.
Different outcome.

The lens you choose determines who you become.

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✨ Final Thought

Challenges come to everyone.
Only a few learn to see them with possibility instead of panic.

The question isn’t, “How big is my obstacle?”
The real question is:

What story am I telling myself about it?

Feeding the Stronger Voice (December 8, 2025)

Every day, one of two voices gets stronger.
Not by accident—but by attention.

We like to believe that confidence, courage, and clarity just “happen” over time, like a natural upgrade that comes with age or experience. But that’s not how inner growth works. The strongest voice inside us doesn’t automatically win.

 It wins because we feed it.

Fear gets louder when we speak its language:
Worry. Excuses. Delay.
Faith gets louder when we practice its habits:
Intentionality. Action. Commitment.

We don’t wake up bold. We become bold.

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The Diet of the Mind

Think back to the last time you hesitated on a decision—whether in leadership, career, athletics, or a
personal calling.

 Did you delay because there wasn’t an opportunity?
Or because fear convinced you to wait?

Fear is fed by passive consumption:

• Scrolling instead of strategizing

• Comparing instead of creating

• Thinking about the future instead of preparing for it

Faith, on the other hand, is fed by active intention:

• Planning with purpose

• Building before certainty

• Taking the next step—even without guarantees

Faith doesn’t need perfect conditions; it just needs movement.

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Starving Fear

Here’s the truth:

We may never silence fear completely. It will always whisper, always suggest an easier option, always offer a safer path.

So the goal isn’t to eliminate fear.

 The goal is to starve it.

Fear survives on:

• Rumination

• Negative self-talk

• Procrastination

• The search for perfect timing

Starve those habits, and fear loses its strength.

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Feeding Faith

Feeding faith doesn’t require heroic gestures. It starts with small, repeatable decisions:

• Show up even when you don’t feel ready.

• Commit to progress, not perfection.

• Focus on growth over comfort.

• Take responsibility for attitude, effort, and intention.

Faith grows when we act in alignment with who we’re becoming—not who our fears say we are.

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The Voice You Choose is the Life You Build

One voice shrinks your world.
One voice expands it.

One keeps you safe.
One makes you strong.

Every day, you get to choose which one you feed.
Not by hope.
Not by personality.
Not by talent.

By attention.

Feed the voice that builds you.
Starve the one that binds you.

The stronger voice is the one you nurture.

Comfort is Not Clarity (December 5, 2025)

Fear loves comfort.

It whispers that familiar equals safe, predictable, and right.
It tells you that staying put is wiser than stepping forward.

But clarity rarely comes from stillness.

You don’t build understanding by clinging to what you already know.
You discover it by moving—by trying, failing, adjusting, and learning along the way.
Clarity is found in motion.

Comfort keeps you protected from risk, but it also shields you from growth.
It creates the illusion of control while quietly holding you back from what’s possible.

Faith, on the other hand, invites action.
Not because the path is obvious, but because the next step matters.

Faith doesn’t require you to see the finish line.
It only asks that you move toward it.

Faith invites you to step.
To risk.
To grow.

Comfort might protect you, but faith propels you.
One keeps you who you are.
The other shapes who you’re becoming.

At some point, you must choose between the safety of what is and the promise of what could be.
And that choice determines not just your direction—but your identity.

The Leadership Fork in the Road (December 4, 2025)

Yesterday, I awoke to the news of the retirement of Kansas State University head football coach Chris Klieman. For some quick backstory for those who may not already know: Chris Klieman was a student-athlete at the University of Northern Iowa, and I grew up watching him play on Saturdays. His father, Bob, was a longtime coach at nearby Waterloo Columbus High School. Before entering the coaching profession—and before becoming a father himself—Bob knew my dad, Eldon Kambel.

I still remember my father pointing out Chris to me when I was young. He and his teammates became my earliest sports heroes. I tried to imitate them in our backyard football games. My friends had no idea who I was talking about, but those players made a lasting impression on me—both in how they played and how they carried themselves on and off the field.

Fast forward to when I began my own career in college athletics. During the early months of my sports information internship at the U.S. Naval Academy and the Naval Academy Athletic Association, I was approached by an Associate Athletic Director for Operations. Just as I once admired Chris Klieman, I began to look up to this athletic administrator—Gene Taylor. It wasn’t just his title that made an impact, but the way he carried himself as both a leader and a follower. I quietly began to build parts of my career around wanting to emulate him.

These two men eventually crossed paths in their own careers, and together their influence continues to impact mine to this day.

So when I heard the news of Chris Klieman’s retirement, I felt compelled to write about it for my blog post, “The Leadership Fork in the Road.” I hope you’ll read it, reflect on where you are on your own road, and consider who you might need alongside you. If that’s something you’re seeking, I’m intentional about helping others—and I’d be glad to walk a part of that journey with you.

The What If Spiral (December 3, 2025)

 “What if…”

It’s a small phrase with a huge shadow.
It sounds innocent enough—two tiny words, soft on the tongue—until they begin to multiply.

What if I fail?
What if the timing is wrong?
What if I’m not enough?

Fear doesn’t need a full argument.
It doesn’t need evidence, logic, or proof.
Fear is efficient.
Give it one question, and it can bring all momentum to a halt.
One seed of doubt can grow into a forest thick enough to confuse your direction and block your light.

But leaders—true leaders—aren’t the ones who never feel fear.
They’re the ones who refuse to let the spiral carry them away.

Rather than tumbling into the unknown, they choose to anchor themselves in what is true right now.
In this moment.
In what they know, not in what they imagine.

Because fear speaks from uncertainty.
Faith speaks from clarity.

Faith says:
I may not know what’s ahead,
but I know Who goes with me.

Faith says:
I may not have every answer,
but I have enough light for the next step.

Faith doesn’t silence every “What if,”
but it keeps those questions from steering the ship.

Leaders rise—not because the fear stops whispering—
but because they learn to answer its questions with truth, courage, and a steady refusal to surrender their forward motion.

When you stay grounded in what is real,
what is consistent,
what is promised…

Suddenly the “What if…” loses its grip,
and you rise into the leader you were meant to become.

When Fear Protects You (and When It Holds You Back (December 2, 2025)

Fear isn’t always the enemy. In fact, fear has a purpose. It’s built into us as a survival mechanism—a signal that something deserves our attention. But the trouble begins when fear tries to protect us from the wrong things.

Yes, fear taps us on the shoulder to keep us safe.
But fear’s real trick is that it doesn’t know the difference between danger and discomfort. And if you don’t learn to separate the two, fear will quietly run your life without you ever realizing it.

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Healthy Fear: The One That Protects You

Healthy fear shows up when something truly threatens your safety or well-being.

• “This situation could actually harm me.”

• “This decision has real consequences.”

• “This is dangerous, unwise, or unsafe.”

Healthy fear is the reason you look both ways before crossing the street. It’s the reason you don’t touch a hot stove. It’s the reason you walk away from destructive people or environments.

It’s not the enemy—it’s wisdom dressed as caution.

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Unhealthy Fear: The One That Holds You Back

Unhealthy fear has a different tone. It doesn’t protect you from danger—it protects you from stretching, growing, and stepping into something new.

This fear says things like:

• “This is unfamiliar, so avoid it.”

• “You’ve never done this before… what if you fail?”

• “People might judge you.”

• “Being uncomfortable is dangerous.”

Unhealthy fear confuses discomfort with danger.
But discomfort is a sign of growth.
Every version of you that you’re hoping to become lives on the other side of discomfort.

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The Real Game Changer: Knowing the Difference

Once you learn to distinguish between healthy fear and unhealthy fear, everything changes.

You stop saying no to opportunities that could elevate you.
You stop shrinking yourself to stay “safe.”
You stop letting fear dictate the size of your life.

Healthy fear says, “Pay attention.”
Unhealthy fear says, “Stay small.”

One protects you.
The other limits you.

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So Ask Yourself…

The next time you feel fear rising in your chest, pause and ask:

“Is this danger… or just discomfort?”

If it’s danger, listen.
If it’s discomfort, lean in.
That’s where growth lives.

Understanding the Two Voices: Fear vs. Faith (December 1, 2025)

I sat in my seat at church, yesterday and left with the question of my appetite. Not for what I had consumed on Thanksgiving on Thursday but whether I have been consumed by my fear or my faith.
Understanding the Two Voices: Fear vs. Faith
Expanding the “What If” vs. “Even If” Mindset

Every decision we make is influenced by two internal voices. One is loud, persistent, and often convincing. The other is steadier, quieter, and rooted in truth. Understanding the difference between these two voices—Fear and Faith—can transform how we navigate challenges, opportunities, and the unknown.

The “What If” Voice: Fear’s Favorite Tool

Fear rarely speaks in complete sentences. It speaks in spirals.

What if this goes wrong?
What if someone judges me?
What if I fail?
What if I’m not good enough?

Fear lives in the future — in imagined outcomes that haven’t happened. It presents possibilities as predictions and risks as inevitabilities. Its goal isn’t to destroy us. Its goal is to protect us.

But protection often looks like delay.
And delay often becomes stagnation.

Fear convinces us that comfort equals safety. But comfort just means familiar — and familiar isn’t the same as right.

The “Even If” Voice: Faith, Courage, and Clarity

Faith doesn’t mean blindly believing everything will work out perfectly.
Faith means trusting that you can handle whatever comes next.

That’s the shift:
Fear asks, “What if?”
Faith answers, “Even if.”

Even if it’s hard, I’ll grow.
Even if I stumble, I’ll get up.
Even if I’m not ready, I can begin.

The “Even If” mindset doesn’t erase risk — it reframes it. It moves us from paralysis to possibility. It reminds us that failure isn’t fatal, and discomfort isn’t a danger. It’s growth calling.

Why This Mindset Shapes Every Decision

Whether you’re leading a team, building a program, managing a department, or navigating a personal goal, your internal voice determines your external actions.

Fear shrinks your world.
Faith expands it.

Fear overestimates the consequence of failure.
Faith understands the opportunity in trying.

Fear keeps you where you are.
Faith moves you toward who you’re becoming.

A Practical Check-In

Next time you hesitate, pause and ask:

“Is this decision coming from What If or Even If?”

You may find that the safest feeling choice isn’t the healthiest one. And the slightly uncomfortable choice — the one tinged with uncertainty — may be the one that builds the life, career, or leadership path you actually want.

The Invitation

You don’t have to silence fear to move forward.
You just have to stop letting it drive.

Let the voice of faith speak a little louder today.

If this resonates, there’s more to come. Follow along for deeper reflections on mindset, leadership, and personal growth — and how these ideas connect to the world of athletics and beyond.