Monday, December 8, 2025

Feeding the Stronger Voice (December 8, 2025)

Every day, one of two voices gets stronger.
Not by accident—but by attention.

We like to believe that confidence, courage, and clarity just “happen” over time, like a natural upgrade that comes with age or experience. But that’s not how inner growth works. The strongest voice inside us doesn’t automatically win.

 It wins because we feed it.

Fear gets louder when we speak its language:
Worry. Excuses. Delay.
Faith gets louder when we practice its habits:
Intentionality. Action. Commitment.

We don’t wake up bold. We become bold.


The Diet of the Mind

Think back to the last time you hesitated on a decision—whether in leadership, career, athletics, or a
personal calling.

 Did you delay because there wasn’t an opportunity?
Or because fear convinced you to wait?

Fear is fed by passive consumption:

  • Scrolling instead of strategizing

  • Comparing instead of creating

  • Thinking about the future instead of preparing for it

Faith, on the other hand, is fed by active intention:

  • Planning with purpose

  • Building before certainty

  • Taking the next step—even without guarantees

Faith doesn’t need perfect conditions; it just needs movement.


Starving Fear

Here’s the truth:

We may never silence fear completely. It will always whisper, always suggest an easier option, always offer a safer path.

So the goal isn’t to eliminate fear.

 The goal is to starve it.

Fear survives on:

  • Rumination

  • Negative self-talk

  • Procrastination

  • The search for perfect timing

Starve those habits, and fear loses its strength.


Feeding Faith

Feeding faith doesn’t require heroic gestures. It starts with small, repeatable decisions:

  • Show up even when you don’t feel ready.

  • Commit to progress, not perfection.

  • Focus on growth over comfort.

  • Take responsibility for attitude, effort, and intention.

Faith grows when we act in alignment with who we’re becoming—not who our fears say we are.


The Voice You Choose is the Life You Build

One voice shrinks your world.
One voice expands it.

One keeps you safe.
One makes you strong.

Every day, you get to choose which one you feed.
Not by hope.
Not by personality.
Not by talent.

By attention.

Feed the voice that builds you.
Starve the one that binds you.

The stronger voice is the one you nurture.

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